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Zero + Zero = Zero!!

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We have heard this phrase countless times in different shapes and forms, “Nothing plus Nothing equals Nothing”, “Nil and Naught are never sought”, “Zip and Duck Always Suck”, “Santa ke saath Banta? Babaji ka ghanta!” I am sorry the last one is in Hindi, it’s a wee bit naughty and it’s R18 but they all mean the same. If nothing is added with nothing the result will always be nothing, méiyǒu, rien , nichts , amugeosdo, kahore…. NOTHING! On the other hand, research shows we are attracted to people who look like us, behave like us, who have a similar personality type and we even tend to gravitate towards those who share our level of education. It’s true. You come to think of it what happens when you walk into a gym the very first time after you have decided to get into shape? Every step is a bit tentative, it’s so easy to get intimidated looking at those big bulky hulks pumping iron, sweating and grunting out loud. You look at their arms, legs and chest and you give a peek at y...

Tip # 2 | Top 5 tips for international students in NZ

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We all hate to admit when we don't know something!! Especially when you are in a new country, new surroundings, amongst new faces and sounds; trying to figure out your own way could not just result in more work but additional stress as well. So, I am here to tell you: It's OK to ask!! We don't know everything and it's alright to admit that. Actually sometimes this could be your best strategy and my  Tip # 2 # 2 Seek Support Remember, there is nothing wrong in asking for help Even if you come from a culture or a country where asking for help is considered to be rude or inappropriate. Ask for help even if you are shy; it would be difficult for the first few times but it will come out right. Asking for help is not a sign of weakness But please be polite when you ask for help In general, you want to be clear, concise, complete and polite  Reach out to your friends and family Remember if your friends don't motivate you or inspire you...